Knock, Knock, Who’s There?

I read a statistic the other day that said more couples now meet online than they do offline. Hell, yes, they do. In this age of Tinder, Match.com, e-Harmony, Zoosk, Christian Mingle, OurTime.com, POF, OKC, Facebook and you-name-it-I’m-sure-it-exists, more people rely on profiles, pics and witty quips than their real-life personality in order to get a little romance up in here. That’s all […]

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Texting Can Make Men Douchey

Texting. It obviously wasn’t a thing in the 80s, the last decade I was fully immersed in the dating world. Fast forward to 2014, and you can’t function as a single person without it. At least, that’s how it feels when I’m trying engage with men I’m interested in but barely know. Our phone screens are often where the conversations begin, and sometimes where they end. I […]

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“Did I Turn You Off Sufficiently for a Second Date?”

There’s something mysterious about confidence. It’s sexy. Intoxicating. In the words of one of my favorite guy friends, “the ultimate panty dropper.” It doesn’t matter if you’re male or female, a confident demeanor is simply attractive. And logically, that would make the opposite of confidence (i.e. insecurity) a “panty keeper onner” (I think I just made up a new word). […]

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The Hot Cop and the Bikini Bar

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Love this quote from Maya Angelou–and it seems especially appropriate when navigating your way through the World of Dating. My tendency, however, is to believe them and then believe that I can change them. Especially when it comes to players. I met one such player online–a cop–and we chatted for […]

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