“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” Love this quote from Maya Angelou–and it seems especially appropriate when navigating your way through the World of Dating. My tendency, however, is to believe them and then believe that I can change them. Especially when it comes to players. I met one such player online–a cop–and we chatted for […]
To my exhibitionist friends of the male persuasion, We don’t want to see it. Well, I can only speak for myself, but if the rest of the females in the world were to appoint me as Madame Spokesperson, I would say: We don’t want to see it. This might come as news to you, but your penis (especially as photographed with your […]
I have a love/hate relationship with online dating. Mostly, I hate it. But the part I love is where I get to write and chat with people via texts and messages. It’s fun, interesting and right up my word-filled alley. Witty banter is my favorite, and I’m always excited when I meet a dude who can hang with my smart assiness. Aaron could. […]
I have always dated younger men. For 20 years, I was married to a younger man. After that, I got involved with another younger man. Even in high school, I dated younger boys. Why? No clue. Maybe it’s a sign of my maturity level. Maybe I’m young for my age. Yes–pretty sure that’s it. Or maybe it’s my way of rebelling […]
Quick back story: It’s January 2, 2014 and this girl has been vehemently single for 20 months. No men. No dates. No kissing. Absolutely no sex. Nothing but one platonic date that left me wondering if it’s time to explore chicks. Kidding. Sort of. But I had made a very conscious decision, after 20 years of marriage and a fiery hot […]